"The future belongs still more to the heart than to the mind. To love is the only thing which can occupy and fill up eternity. The infinite requires the inexhaustible."
Victor Hugo - Les Miserables
We often wonder what might have been. Probably more often than we wonder what could be.
There is no reason for this, no good can come of it, no changes can be made that might affect what has already happened.
And yet the memory consistently returns to the wishes of years past, to plans that have since changed, to loves lost and opportunities squandered.
Why must we do this to ourselves? From what deep seated desire for punishment does this need to remember and imagine different outcomes spring from?
No comfort can ever be found in wishes that have already passed us by.
It is when we turn to look forward that hope leaps from the shadows to take the place of vain and empty wishes.
Suddenly each opportunity grows and changes in an ever living entity, bringing new plans and wishes into view with a vibrancy unmatched by the most vivid dream of the past.
And then, when all seems to be working together for the best and the pain from years past seems somehow not so painful;
When happiness has been released and content has taken its place,
Love returns, a warmth forgotten, a pain familiar and new.
Some say that love is nonsense - I tell you it is no such thing. For weeks and months it is a steady physical pain, an ache about the heart, never leaving one, by night or by day; a long strain on one's nerves like toothache or rheumatism, not intolerable at any one instant, but exhausting by its steady drain on the strength.
And yet... We cling to it, hoping that it will never end, and praying for the day that it will change from the suffering we so enjoy into a bliss that we only half believe to exist...
Oh, how beautiful a thing, this love.